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8. red flags 🚩

tomgirly -
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Questionable choices from leads. Toxic af but we still Iove it ☠️🏹💘
must include at least one of the following:
  • relationship seen as negative by either lead, or a trusted third party, due to harm committed (intentional or not) for the entirety (or majority) of the relationship
  • explicit dubcon and/or noncon. May include physical or emotional violence/manipulation/coercion. Attitudes of leads or third party might treat as SA
    — In the event of any noncon, not addressed immediately through communication and/or contrition 
  • explicit manipulation or controlling behavior. Lead’s justification for behavior could be accepted within the relationship
  • intentional action taken to cause distress, harm, or hardship, with negative consequences 
    only for main couple, may not apply for side couples. some stories may still have other TWs
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see black flags 🏴 🖤 🔪 list for even more toxic stories